A draft of a thought
Posted by John on August 21, 2008
I just found the below in my drafts folder. I think I wanted to expand on it, but now I’m not so sure it would benefit. So here it is:
So I just had a thought while I was in the shower (where all my most thoughtful thoughts are thunk) – what if all human anxiety could be alleviated with a simple tweaking of expectations?
Allow me to explain. My theory is that anxiety stems from expectations that failed to be met. Like, I expected a promotion and didn’t get it, so now I hate myself, want to kill my boss, etc. What happens if we simply tweak the expectation?
Muffin said
That’s why I’m such a pessimist. If I’m always expecting the wost, I’ll most likely be pleasantly surprised!